Mum left stranded on street with two babies

By Ross Davidson

Published: 21/11/2009

A mother was left stranded after four bus drivers refused to let her board with a double buggy.

Kerry Liversedge used the Kingswells First service to take her two young boys to the Bob the Builder show at Aberdeen’s Music Hall on Thursday.

On the return journey from Aberdeen, however, she says four bus drivers either turned her away or did not stop.

Last night Mrs Liversedge, 38, of Brae Cottage, Leochel-Cushnie, Alford, said she was in tears and “practically begging” when the fourth bus showed up. She said she would never use First’s park and ride service again.

The Kingswells First service was designed to reduce congestion and carbon emissions.

But Mrs Liversedge said: “I’m going to take my car from now on. I tried to be environmentally friendly by taking the bus but if that’s the way passengers with children are going to be treated I’m not interested.”

Mrs Liversedge, who was carrying sons Torin, two, and five-month-old Glenn in a two-seater pram, started waiting for a bus on Union Street at about 4pm.

She said: “The first driver said the bus was too busy and drove on, so I waited for the second one only to be told when it arrived there was already a pram on board and I could not get on as well.

“The third driver did not even stop and by the time the fourth bus came along I was in tears and practically begging to be let on the bus.

““The driver said the only way I could get on was to fold up my pram, which is impossible to do when you are by yourself with two children and a busload of people waiting on Union Street for you, so I gave up.”

The teacher, who is on maternity leave from Aboyne Academy, considered calling her husband Adam, 38, also a teacher, but discovered her phone had been lost or stolen. The couple also have another son, five-year-old Corey, who was at school that day.

Mrs Liversedge began walking towards the city’s west end and stopped in a doctor’s surgery in the Rubislaw area to use its phone.

“A woman who was leaving overheard me on the phone and offered to drive me out to Kingswells, I could not believe how selfless she was,” she added.

“She was pregnant and had to pick up her own child from nursery. She was a good Samaritan, I had no idea how else I was going to get home except walking.”

Duncan Cameron, operations director for First in Aberdeen, said an investigation would be launched to discover why one of the buses failed to stop.

He added: “We would like to offer our sincere apologies to Mrs Liversedge and her children for any distress caused.

“Park and ride services are popular and this would account for the buses being full at the time she tried to board.

“Unfortunately, due to limited space on board, and health and safety reasons, when the buggy/wheelchair space is occupied, additional passengers with prams are asked to fold them if they wish to travel.

“We understand that this can be difficult to manage when travelling with small children, but unfortunately it is the only option.

“We are very sorry to hear that one of the buses failed to stop, and will launch a full investigation into this to ensure that we understand what happened, and are able to prevent a recurrence in future.”

Reader's Comments

While I sympathise with Mrs Liversedge to a degree, she is being a bit unrealistic. It is extremely unlikely that a pram, of the size she was using, would be able to enter a bus unfolded. They are simply too large! Does she fold it to place it in her car I wonder ? What does astound me is that no one at the stop or on the bus even offered to assist her. Shame on you fellow Aberdonians. R Campbell Rosemount
Ron Campbell
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Fair point from ron I think, the buggy seems alot wider than the aisle. Why no one helped her I do not know, particularly the driver. Not so long ago bus drivers would go out of their way to help someone like that. But nowadays it seems like they are all in too much of a hurry, probably to get back to the picket line to demand a pay rise again! Also, re Duncan Cameron, if you say the buggy wasnt permitted on the bus for safety reasons, then why day after day, bus after bus do the drivers cram as much people onto their buses as possible. Ofter jam packed in the aisle from the back right to the front and the drivers still stop to let others on?
lee shepherd
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Fair point from ron I think, the buggy seems alot wider than the aisle. Why no one helped her I do not know, particularly the driver. Not so long ago bus drivers would go out of their way to help someone like that. But nowadays it seems like they are all in too much of a hurry, probably to get back to the picket line to demand a pay rise again! Also, re Duncan Cameron, if you say the buggy wasnt permitted on the bus for safety reasons, then why day after day, bus after bus do the drivers cram as much people onto their buses as possible. Ofter jam packed in the aisle from the back right to the front and the drivers still stop to let others on?
lee shepherd
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If the only option for Mrs liversedge to travel on the bus was to fold the pram up why didnt the driver assist Mrs Liversedge. This is a typical example of a first bus driver not seeing things from a customers point of view. If that had been a taxi driver they would have got out there car and assisted the lady the same as what they do if they pick up a disabled person
Eddie Aberdeen
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You will probably find the drivers are illeagals and don.t know what humanity is. It is about time that bus drivers were taught manners and what helpfulness is. I am originally from Turriff and get the P & J every day. We have the same thing down in london, they don'n drive past they do stop look at the situation and thump the forehead and DUH. These drivers should be named and shamed.
Jim Erskine
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Did Ms Liversedge experience difficulties on the inward journey to Aberdeen and if so how did she overcome them. there is no way that she could have manouvered a double buggy on to the bus by herself and probably it would have been too wide for the aisle anyway. As a previous correspondent states she must fold it to get in her car although the kids will be in their seats at the time. I find it very hard to believe that Aberdonians would stand by and let the woman have such difficulties and not at least offer a hand. It is remarkable that in contrast the first stop she made a lady overheard her and drove her to Kingswells, maybe she was the one true Samaritan or the one true Aberdonian. i wonder if this story has a degree of exaggeration about it.
james morrison
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Look at the size of that buggy. Its crazy trying to get that on a bus. If she wants to be green she should invest in a smaller buggy, I've see plenty that are smaller than what she has. Also when a bus driver has to refuse a buggy because they already have two on board, why does the person with the buggy feel the need to hurl abuse at the poor driver? How would they like it if somone one came into their work place, tried to do something potentially dangerous and then verbally abused and threatened them?
Billy Thebus
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In reply to Lee Shepherd, many bus drivers do not leave the cab these days for fear of being assaulted. Also if a bus driver got out of their cab to help somone fold a push chair on the pavement and say sliced their finger off, they would not be able to claim damages, as once out of the cab the bus companies wash their hands of any responsibilty for drivers. So it is safer and you are less likely to get into trouble if you stay put.
Billy Thebus
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There are hardly any Aberdonians left in Aberdeen you just have to listen to all the foreign accents when walking down Union Street. You can't even talk in an Aberdeen accent because the shop assistant or bus drivers can't understand you. There was a day when someone would have helped that woman but sadly things have changed and not for the better.
Robert Horne
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The moral of this story is take your car in to town. Taking a bus in to town is reasonable if you are an adult on your own or at least with out children. You also don't want to be going in to town on the bus if you plan to make any reasonable sized purchases. I had a similar problem years ago at the Christmas period with wife and three young kids and only one normal push chair. Not only would it have been more convenient to take my car,It would have actually been less expansive. Aberdeen City Council don't want to see car drivers in town, this can be seen by the lack of parking spaces, the ones that are available requre a permit or an extortionate payment, Bus lanes which have been "built" with out any thought, and cause more confusion and traffic disruption. cntral road islands at bus stops, preventing the "flow" of traffic. First bus don't know what customer services is..... It is about time Aberdeen city council was offering these bus route to the competition
Keith Stirton
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