CAMPAIGNER says bill would have prevented prosecution

Margo hits at mother’s suicide-aid trial ordeal

By Morag Lindsay and Gillian Bell

Published: 26/01/2010

A mother cleared of trying to murder her desperately ill daughter could have been spared a court ordeal if a law on assisted suicide had been in place, Margo MacDonald claimed last night.

The Independent MSP said her End of Life Assistance Bill published in the Scottish Parliament last week was aimed at preventing tragic cases like that of Kay Gilderdale, whose bed-ridden daughter died after she gave her morphine and a cocktail of drugs.

Mrs Gilderdale 55, was given a 12-month conditional discharge for assisting the suicide of ME sufferer Lynn, 31, who had already attempted to kill herself and begged her mother to let her die.

The judge at her trial in East Sussex applauded the “commonsense, decency and humanity” of the jury, which took just two hours to acquit Mrs Gilderdale of attempted murder, and questioned if it had been in the public interest to prosecute her after she had already admitted aiding and abetting a suicide.

Mr Justice Bean told her: “There is no dispute you were a caring and loving mother and that you considered you were acting in the best interests of your daughter.

“You had cared for her selflessly and with exemplary devotion for 17 years and never tired of that burden.”

Ms MacDonald said the tragic circumstances showed the need for her bill, which is expected to face its first vote in the autumn.

It would allow anyone aged over 16 to request help to die, as long as they had been diagnosed as terminally ill or permanently physically incapacitated, and were finding life intolerable.

They would have to have been registered with a GP in Scotland for at least 18 months, and would have to discuss their wishes with a doctor and psychiatrist on two separate occasions.

Ms MacDonald, who began campaigning for a change in the law two years ago after she was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease, said: “I have a huge amount of sympathy for Mrs Gilderdale.

“Her daughter was mentally competent and intent on committing suicide.

“Her mother backed her up in the very way her daughter wanted. However, as the law stands, she was charged with attempted murder.

“One of the things my bill sets out to achieve is that parents should not be put in this dreadful position.”

The week-long trial at Lewes Crown Court heard Mrs Gilderdale’s daughter was diagnosed with ME at 14 and required round-the-clock care at home in Stonegate, near Heathfield, East Sussex.

Jurors were told the once active and musical girl led an “unimaginably wretched” life in her later years.

She was paralysed from the waist down, unable to speak, eat or drink and fed by tube.

She had attempted suicide in the past, had drafted a “living will”, placed a Do Not Resuscitate note on her medical records and considered ending her life at Dignitas, the Swiss-based assisted suicide clinic.

In the early hours of December 3, 2008, she took an overdose of morphine by injecting it into a vein, according to Mrs Gilderdale’s own account to the family GP on the morning of the death.

When Lynn realised the dose was not enough, she called out to her mother, who spent an hour trying to persuade her not to kill herself.

She told her mother she wanted the “pain to go” and did not want to go on living. Mrs Gilderdale spent the next 30 hours helping her to die by handing her two syringes of morphine which her daughter administered herself.

At one point, Mrs Gilder-dale felt the drug had not achieved her daughter’s aim and, fearing she would be brain-damaged, gave her crushed tablets followed by more doses of morphine.

The decision to prosecute was made before the law was clarified in England to make it easier for those helping a relative end their life to know if they faced prosecution.

An Aberdeenshire councillor last night urged colleagues to lobby MSPs to support Ms MacDonald’s bill.

Independent Westhill and District councillor Mark Cullen said his father, Martin, died from cancer 21 years ago and it would have been “a comfort” if legislation had been in place. He said: “It would allow those to whom it applied to end their life with dignity in their own country, among family and friends.”

Reader's Comments

A tragic case indeed. One can only sympathise with the mother who had to make the most difficult decision of her life. The jusdge's comments in regard to the jury's verdict says it all. I wish Margo MacDonald every success in her proposed bill. While there must be many safeguards, it is high time the law was clarified and those in the medical profession were allowed to "treat" their patients in a humanitarian manner, where that is the best option.
Ron Campbell
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We wouldn't stand by and watch a loved pet suffer so why should we watch our nearest and dearest suffer an agonising death? Good luck Margo.
Cruden Loon
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The trial judge and the jury were wrong in their deliberations - Kay Gilderdale did in fact tire of caring for her daughter and deliberately and with intent kill her this is murder - There is no circumstance that can justify someone, especially a Christian, taking his/her own life. Christians are called to live their lives for God, and the decision on when to die is God’s and God’s alone - If an unsaved person commits suicide, he has done nothing but “expedite” his journey to hell
Thomas Owenson
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"An Aberdeenshire councillor last night urged colleagues to lobby MSPs to support Ms MacDonald’s bill" - one wonders who the councillor was but it only goes to show what I have said many times "the lack of morals"
Thomas Owenson
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Thomas Owenson, Although I respect your religious believes I couldn't disagree with your comments more. Have you ever had to watch a loved one suffer horrendously because of an illness? Because I can assure you it is not in any way pleasant!! I agree with Ron that there must be many safe guards to this bill and wish Margo all the best.
Lynda Farquhar
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Religion does not command respect just because. You only have to look at the morally corrupt comments of the "christian" here on this page. To wallow in the suffering of others without the basic understanding of the torment this mother and child had to endure beggars belief. Thomas Owenson you are a disgrace to your fellow human being.
Dawkins Pitbull
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Dawkins I agree with what you said. I just meant that Owen has the right to his opinion. No matter how disgraceful and offensive. He has obviously been blinded by ancient story telling and preaching!
Lynda Farquhar
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Lynda and Dawkins for your info - I was with my mother continually for the last 6 days of her life - she died with Altzheimers - I was with one of my uncles continually for the last 5 days of his life - he died with cancer of the throat - I was with my father in law for the last 8 days and continuously for the last 12 hours of his life he die in my arms with pneumonia partially due to suffering a stoke - I was off and on with my sister in law for the last 3 months and continuously for the last two hours of her life - she died with cancer of the bowel All were born again christians and none committed suicide or were assisted along with their deaths - SO NEITHER OF YOU HAVE THE RIGHT OR MORAL UNDERSTANDING TO CRITICISE ME FOR MY FEELINGS OR OPINION IT WOULD DO YOU BOTH THE WORLD OF GOOD TO TRY READING THE BIBLE AND JUST MAYBE YOU WOULD GLEAN SOME MORALS - I have not been blinded by ancient stories and preachings but had my eyes opened with christian morals and the love of our Lords and saviour Jesus Christ - people who commit suicide or assist people to commit suicide if nothing else are not brave but cowards
Thomas Owenson
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