Calendar An icon of a desk calendar. Cancel An icon of a circle with a diagonal line across. Caret An icon of a block arrow pointing to the right. Email An icon of a paper envelope. Facebook An icon of the Facebook "f" mark. Google An icon of the Google "G" mark. Linked In An icon of the Linked In "in" mark. Logout An icon representing logout. Profile An icon that resembles human head and shoulders. Telephone An icon of a traditional telephone receiver. Tick An icon of a tick mark. Is Public An icon of a human eye and eyelashes. Is Not Public An icon of a human eye and eyelashes with a diagonal line through it. Pause Icon A two-lined pause icon for stopping interactions. Quote Mark A opening quote mark. Quote Mark A closing quote mark. Arrow An icon of an arrow. Folder An icon of a paper folder. Breaking An icon of an exclamation mark on a circular background. Camera An icon of a digital camera. Caret An icon of a caret arrow. Clock An icon of a clock face. Close An icon of the an X shape. Close Icon An icon used to represent where to interact to collapse or dismiss a component Comment An icon of a speech bubble. Comments An icon of a speech bubble, denoting user comments. Ellipsis An icon of 3 horizontal dots. Envelope An icon of a paper envelope. Facebook An icon of a facebook f logo. Camera An icon of a digital camera. Home An icon of a house. Instagram An icon of the Instagram logo. LinkedIn An icon of the LinkedIn logo. Magnifying Glass An icon of a magnifying glass. Search Icon A magnifying glass icon that is used to represent the function of searching. Menu An icon of 3 horizontal lines. Hamburger Menu Icon An icon used to represent a collapsed menu. Next An icon of an arrow pointing to the right. Notice An explanation mark centred inside a circle. Previous An icon of an arrow pointing to the left. Rating An icon of a star. Tag An icon of a tag. Twitter An icon of the Twitter logo. Video Camera An icon of a video camera shape. Speech Bubble Icon A icon displaying a speech bubble WhatsApp An icon of the WhatsApp logo. Information An icon of an information logo. Plus A mathematical 'plus' symbol. Duration An icon indicating Time. Success Tick An icon of a green tick. Success Tick Timeout An icon of a greyed out success tick. Loading Spinner An icon of a loading spinner.

What happens to child contact arrangements if I work offshore?

It is possible to make contact arrangements without going to court
It is possible to make contact arrangements without going to court

A separation, whether children are involved or not, can be difficult. But when one parent works away it can create extra complications.

In fact, lack of a 9-to-5 routine arises in more child contact disputes here in the north-east than anywhere else in Scotland, perhaps owing to the region’s oil and gas links.

However, knowing where you stand, legally, as a parent is essential. To explain, and simplify, a potentially complicated situation, we have teamed up with Aberdeen-based family law expert, Donna McKay, who works for Scottish legal firm, Brodies LLP.

Donna McKay, a family law expert at Brodies LLP, explains child contact arrangements when working offshore
Donna McKay, a family law expert at Brodies LLP

With a high number of clients in the oil and gas industry, Donna knows that work that takes parents away from home can impact parental responsibilities and that finding a way to maintain regular contact with children can be challenging.

The family law expert explained: “The Children (Scotland) Act 1995 states that one of the rights afforded to those with parental rights and responsibilities in respect of a child is the right to maintain contact with that child. Beyond that, however, the legislation does not give any indication as to what the contact arrangements ought to be; and with good reason – every family is different.”

There is no “one size fits all” solution when it comes to managing the arrangements for children.

Donna McKay said that those who work in the oil industry, and have a non-9-to-5 work pattern, can “add another layer of complexity to an already fraught situation”.

But the family law expert advises:

How to make arrangements for ‘onshore’ contact

Parents who work offshore
Parents who work offshore could organise onshore contact when back home

“Parents often work overseas, returning to Scotland after lengthy periods away, or are in and out of the country as dictated by offshore rotas.

“One of the biggest challenges facing those who work away from home is uncertainty over when they will be available for contact.  Sticking to the same arrangements, week in-week out may be impossible if they are required to travel on an ad hoc basis.”

Donna encourages parents to make arrangements for contact which will apply when they are onshore.

She added: “As long as it is clear when contact will start during each period they are home, there is no reason why contact cannot take place, regardless of how long the parent will be around for before requiring to depart for work again. For example, a rota could be set up whereby they see their children on set days each week, commencing the first weekend they are back onshore.”

Could you set up a regular commitment?

“Similarly, those working a more established and regular pattern should manage to commit to regular contact. In fact, those who are working offshore are often free from having any work commitments during times when they are back onshore so frequent contact is possible.

Have you considered ‘shared care’?

A shared care arrangement might also work well.  The term “shared care” relates to an arrangement where children spend roughly equal time with each parent.  The children of a parent whose employment involved an offshore or overseas rotation could move between their parents’ households depending on who is onshore, ensuring that they spend substantial periods of time with each parent.

Co-operation is key

“To make arrangements work, co-operation between parents is fundamental to a successful outcome. It is important to recognise that a parent’s availability won’t usually change simply because they have now separated from the child’s other parent.

“A degree of flexibility is crucial in these circumstances and reasonable expectations must be maintained – juggling work commitments and arrangements for children is no easy feat.”

What happens when it needs to be taken to court?

Aberdeen Sheriff Court
Aberdeen Sheriff Court

If it isn’t possible to agree about arrangements for children between parents, then the court will determine what should happen.

Brodies’ family law expert added: “Courts in the north-east are familiar with the practical issues and uncertainly caused by this type of working and Sheriffs will do their best to find a solution which works for everyone concerned.

“The Sheriff will, however, only order contact they believe will have the best chance of actually taking place, bearing in mind all of the practical issues that need to be considered.

“As with all cases involving children – the best interests of the child are always paramount.”


If you are experiencing a parental dispute or have any questions around child contact then Donna McKay and the family law experts at Brodies can help. Visit the Brodies website for more details about the family law practice.

[[brand_name]] logo

[[title]]

[[text]]

[[button_text]]